A father promised her daughter a special drink. She was eager to receive it from him. On the other hand, the father expects her to wait until he’s ready to release it to her. She must wait. She mustn’t get tired because this is a special drink. She can’t just enter any shop and buy it. It’s not sold anywhere. Her father knew how he got it; if she could wait, she would enjoy it. But if she can’t wait, she’ll get a counterfeit one that’ll give her a running stomach. I Am the Almighty God. If I promise you anything, I stand by My Word. I Am the Giver of perfect gift. If I give it to you, no one will take it away. You’ll enjoy it until the end.
I Am a Father, and whatever I give to you is perfect. Before I give it to you, you mustn’t be in haste. You must be patient. If you’re in a rush, somebody will provide you with the wrong one and by the time I give you Mine, you can’t receive it anymore because your hands are full. Can you marry two husbands together? You cannot! Many of you ran ahead of your blessing, and your life turned upside down.
When I send you to this Earth, everything you need is given to you. I gave you more than you needed until you’ll return to Me. But many of you are in lack because you ran ahead of your blessing. There is a set time for everything. If I programmed you to marry at thirty-five and you said it’s too late, you’ll get a counterfeit husband. If you get a counterfeit husband, he’ll turn your life upside down because he’ll contaminate all your blessings. How many of you are in the right marriage? Ask yourself a question.
There are different kinds of drinks: water, lemon juice, orange juice, apple juice, mango juice, and so on. If you taste each one of them, their taste is different. If you mix apple with lemon, you’ll get a different taste. This is what all of you are doing to yourself. I Am a perfect Father, and I’ll never give you what’ll ache your teeth. If your teeth are aching, how comfortable will you feel? You’ll feel the pains all over your head. All your system will scatter just because of only one tooth. But getting into the wrong marriage is worse than that.
I Am the Almighty God and have nothing to teach you but holiness. Until you’re holy, you can never meet My need. If you’re in a right marriage, that doesn’t mean everything is perfect. Everything cannot be perfect because you’re flesh. But the love you have for Me will show in your marriage. If your love for Me is powerful, it will show in your love for each other. If you love Me for who I Am, you cannot marry a man because of what you want; you must marry him for who he is. If both of you are in Me, if both of you are holy together, you’ll produce healthy and holy children.
If you visit My church today, everywhere is full of single mothers and single fathers. You have eaten raw yam, and your stomach is aching. If you choose it wrong, you’ll eat it wrong. When you know you’re in a marriage where either your life or your partner's life isn’t right, why should you produce children in such a marriage? What kind of children will you produce in such a marriage? You’ll also produce wrong children. If I begin to analyse many things for all of you, you’ll be confused. I come down speaking to you like a Father to His children. Unless all of you do My will, peace, and wellbeing are far from you.
All of you are living by My grace. If you’ve defiled yourself before you marry, what else do you expect in the marriage? Your past is working against all of you. This is why I expect you to confess all your sins before you come together so that your past life will not play a key role in your marriage. If a man lies with you before the wedding, he becomes your husband spiritually. If you don’t marry him, it’ll affect your marriage. Unless I delete his Spirit away from your Spirit, you cannot have a peaceful marriage because you’ve contaminated your Spirit already.
Many of you don’t understand why the Father cursed Adam and Eve. He laid a curse on them because a lot of things were destroyed through the sins they committed. The worst sin, the head of every sin, is the sin of sexual immorality. And if you investigate the life of every Christian, you can hardly see a few whose Spirit is not polluted by such spirit. If your Spirit is polluted by such spirit, you need a complete cleansing before you go into any marriage. If you fail to cleanse yourself and go into marriage and produce children, you must know what you’ll do to those children.
As there is no perfect man or woman, there’s also no perfect marriage. Through the life both couples live in Jesus Christ, they can maintain their marriage until the end. In light of this, they’ll still have misunderstandings, but this won’t lead to any major crisis because the Person they gave their heart to will always guide them until the end.
Many of you thought the people of old could keep their marriage because they were perfect. They were not perfect, but they weren’t exposed to many evils like us. If a young girl lives under the roof of her parents until she marries, if she doesn’t defile herself, then tell me where sexual immorality will come from. In this present era, one, you’ve defiled yourself; two, even though you’ve given your life to Jesus, you surround yourself with every available technology like television and the internet; you see what you’re not supposed to see everyday, the spirit of sexual immorality in you will keep telling you ‘I am here, I’m still available’. As it is for the man, so also for the woman.
We don’t live in a world where people live in huts anymore. The cost of living is very high these days! In the time of old, when men were men, marriage was more sustainable than now. Coupled with this, people were more contented with what they had. Today, every youth wants to go to the university. Whether the money is there or not, whether it’s in their destiny or not, they want to go. Therefore, both parents have to work to pay the bills. Through this work, a lot of things happen. The good time they should have had together as a happy family is taken away because no time is left after work. The person you see often will become the one you can lean on.
Does Jehovah God make mistakes? Not at all. As followers of Christ who want to partake in heavenly blessings, you must follow every Word of the Father carefully with obedience. This is the only way there can be peace in the home. How can you live a peaceful life if your marriage is not peaceful? Money cannot buy happiness, and money cannot buy a peaceful home. A peaceful home can only be provided by the same Person who instituted marriage, the Father Himself. If you dwell richly on His Word, you can stand and tell others what it takes to make a home. I pray for you this day that Jesus Christ will guide your steps and pour fresh oil into your marriage. He’ll keep and save you from every spirit of negativity in Jesus' name. Amen! May the Lord give you the grace to walk with Him in Jesus' name.